Family pain can stick around ___GLORIETA, N.M. (BP)--Failure to deal with a painful family history can be a trigger for depression later in life, an editor of life support materials at LifeWay Christian Resources said. ___"God intended for us to have healthy families. Unfortunately for a lot of us, that just wasn't our experience," said Dale McCleskey in a session at Glorieta Baptist Conference Center. The seminar on dealing with depression was built around LifeWay's new nine-week study by the same name. ___To break the cycle of hurt, McCleskey encouraged church leaders to help people deal with the baggage from their past and learn to effectively communicate negative emotions. ___In a healthy family, McCleskey said: ___ Open communication is practiced, including a willingness to talk about problems and hurts. ___ Conflict is viewed as a normal part of life. ___ Parents have an intimate marriage, openly showing love to one another. ___ People are permitted to be themselves and are accepted as such. ___ Home is a safe place. ___ People share encouragement and affirmation.