FAMILY MATTERS:
Help children learn how to accept others
___A family with a special-needs child the same age as our daughter recently moved next door to us. How can we encourage our child to accept and build a relationship with her new neighbor?
___ What a wonderful opportunity you have to teach your daughter about love
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KAY TOWERS
Program Coordinator
LifeWay Fellowship, Killeen
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and acceptance according to God's plan and purpose.
___Children learn best by example. Your modeling will be the most effective way to show her firsthand how to accept her new neighbor.
___Begin by visiting next door and getting to know the mother. Parents of special-needs children often lack fellowship with other adults. Let her know you care about her. Develop a clear understanding of the child's specific needs. Inquire about the best way she perceives for your children to interact.
___Should the parent respond favorably to the possibility of your children being together, inquire about information you might need to know when the child is at your house. Then, either make a second visit with your daughter or invite the family over to your home to visit. This will allow both families to get to know each other.
___As your child sees you accepting this family, she has an opportunity to interact with the new neighbor. Always acknowledge the child's presence. Don't ignore the child as if he's not there. Talk to him and not about him.
___You should explain to your daughter any limitations that exist with the child. Explain that all children like to have friends and to play, even if they can't do certain activities. Suggest things they can do together. Focus on the ways they are alike and ways they can enjoy being together rather than the differences.
___Invite the family to go to church with you. Share with your church, especially your daughter's Sunday School teachers, the possible opportunity to minister to this family by providing a place where the child is welcome to come and learn about Jesus.
___Many families with special-needs children feel uncomfortable visiting a church. Churches and church families should communicate the desire to minister to such families and let them know they are welcomed.
___Pray for the family next door. Thank God for new friends.
___As your daughter sees you accepting the family, she will model your actions and accept her new neighbor.
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