Program offers stress relief for South Texas families
Posted: 3/20/08
Program offers stress relief
for South Texas families
By Haley Smith
Baptist Child & Family Services
DEL RIO—Most parents agree—raising a family can be tough. Doing it as a single mother or as the parent of a child veering out of control is even tougher.
Fortunately help is available in several southwest Texas communities through Baptist Child & Family Services programs. STAR—Services To At Risk youth—offers family counseling while Families For a Future concentrates on parenting courses and support groups. Both exist to help families communicate and create a violence-free lifestyle.
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“I am very thankful that the agency offers these wonderful programs in the area, especially considering the limited resources previously available in our small towns,” said Jerry Jimenez, probation officer for Ozona and Sonora.
Jimenez, who participated in Families for a Future with his wife and childen, continues to recommend the counseling and parenting courses to his struggling clients.
“There’s no roadmap to being a parent, but it helps greatly to have a support group that includes the entire family,” Jimenez explained. “It really helped my marriage and family to have a group to express frustration to and the chance to bounce ideas off of one another.”
STAR specifically services youth on a short-term basis through counseling and crisis intervention for families either mandated by the court system or for voluntary participants. The program teaches anger management and family communication through individual counseling sessions. Case managers even go into area schools to help encourage and monitor progress of the at risk youth.
“Our clients set goals through our programs. Our primary desire is to help them meet those goals through intervention and prevention,” said Raquel Frausto, program director of STAR and Families for a Future. “We are on call 24 hours a day, 7 days a week ready to respond when necessary.”
Families for a Future has a similar purpose, offering 12 sessions of parenting and youth workshops. Families participate as a unit, but parents, youth and children attend their own uniquely developed sessions.
Courses end with a weekend retreat and graduation ceremony celebrating the progress made over the three-month period.
Family fun days coordinated by the agency are offered throughout the year for participants in both programs.
The Garza family, who live in Sonora, had a successful experience with STAR in 2005, and they participated in the Families for a Future three times.
“The programs really helped us improve our communication and better our home,” Veronica Garza said. “I still refer back to our course booklet for wisdom in disciplining my boys.”
Garza first signed her family up for Families for a Future after a move. The family was in a new house, new city and new school. The boys needed someone to open up to other than Garza and her ex-husband. Garza was thankful BCFS even gave the boys’ father the opportunity to participate in the final retreat, although he could not attend the other sessions.
“We were very fortunate to find a program free of charge with a flexible schedule,” Garza said. “Originally, my boys did not want to go but ended up loving it and would take the classes again in a heartbeat.”
The second time around in the parenting courses, Garza met a woman who has become one of her best friends. The two continue to help hold each other accountable, attend Bible study, run errands together and take turns watching one another’s children.
“The program is beneficial to every family no matter their circumstance; we were thankful to find a program that reached out to our entire family,” Garza noted.




