Churches called to ‘break the chains’ of family violence
Given the prevalence of family violence and human trafficking in Texas, every faith community will encounter survivors, participants in a Texas Department of Family and Protective Services webinar learned.
“It is too common for you not to have encountered somebody,” said Samantha McWhinney, prevention coordinator at the Texas Council on Family Violence.
McWhinney addressed more than 100 participants in an Oct. 17 webinar titled “Breaking Chains: A Faith-based Approach to Domestic Violence and Human Trafficking.”
In order to “break the chains,” churches and other faith communities must create a culture where coercion, control and violence are not tolerated, McWhinney asserted.
More than 1 in 3 women and 1 in 4 men in the United States have experienced rape, physical violence or stalking by an intimate partner, she noted.
National hotlines rank Texas second among all states in contacts regarding domestic violence at 19,168 and human trafficking at 2,373, she reported. Furthermore, 80,000 youth were sexually trafficked in a single year in Texas.
Control and coercion are the common denominators that link family violence and human trafficking, McWhinney said.
She defined domestic violence as “a pattern of behaviors used by one partner to maintain power and control over another partner in an intimate relationship.”
Human trafficking occurs “when a trafficker uses force, fraud or coercion to control another person for the purpose of engaging in commercial sex acts or soliciting labor or services against his or her will,” she said.
“Family violence and human trafficking both are rooted in power control dynamics,” McWhinney said.
Behaviors common to perpetrators of family violence and human trafficking include coercion and threats, intimidation, isolation, economic abuse and emotional abuse. Minimizing, blaming or denying are also tactics they use against victims.
Isolation and victim-blaming also are used in some faith communities by individuals who misuse the tenets of their faith and cherry-picked excerpts from sacred texts to allow abuse and violence in their midst, McWhinney noted.
Other religiously abusive practices she identified include: using community coercion and spiritual authority to enforce subservience and submissiveness; prolonging abusive relationships by insisting victims remain in those relationships; restricting access to health care; using children to manipulate victims of abuse; and controlling sexuality and reproduction.
‘Leaving does not equate with safety’
Family violence literally is a matter of life and death. Last year, 205 Texans were killed by their intimate partner, and an additional 16 bystanders were killed, McWhinney reported.
Of the 205 victims, 92 individuals—45 percent—had separated or ended their relationship with their abuser, she added.
“Leaving does not equate with safety,” she said.
In Texas, half of eligible individuals who contact a family violence shelter will not receive help because there is no space, McWhinney stated.
Nine out of 10 survivors experience homelessness at some point due to fleeing family violence, and child care is available on site at only 40 percent of family violence agencies in the state.
“Support needs to be survivor-centered,” McWhinney said. “Trust survivors that they know what they need.”
Churches and other faith communities can be involved in primary, secondary or tertiary prevention, she suggested.
Primary prevention is focused “upstream” to address violence before it occurs. This involves changing systems and societal norms regarding the use of coercion and violence in relationships.
Secondary prevention involves crisis intervention to minimize harm and to address the immediate needs of survivors.
Tertiary prevention focuses on long-term recovery that “emphasizes healing, safety and stability for survivors,” she said.
She offered other suggestions for faith communities:
- Be vocal about anti-violence. Address issues of abuse and domestic violence from the pulpit.
- Create well-known policies. Develop policies that prevent abuse, and educate the entire faith community.
- Connect with a local program that addresses family violence. Participate in collaborative community responses.
- Engage youth. Teach adolescents about healthy relationships.




Douglas Edward Pond of Temple, former Texas Baptist pastor and retired U.S. Army chaplain, died Oct. 12. He was 90. He was born March 1, 1934, the eighth of 11 children of Amie and Lee J. Pond, in Bryson. When he graduated from high school in O’Donnell, he became the first of their children to earn a diploma. He went on to work his way through Hardin-Simmons University. He married his college sweetheart Nancy Stewart on May 27, 1955. After graduating with a Bachelor of Science degree from Hardin-Simmons in 1956, he received an Army Reserves artillery commission at Fort Hood, taking steps toward his long-term goal of becoming a military chaplain. He earned his Master of Divinity degree from Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary in three years, while working fulltime for Mrs. Baird’s Bread. He went on to serve as pastor of Locust Grove Baptist Church near Canadian, First Baptist Church in Follett and First Baptist Church in Cactus. While in Cactus, he learned the Southern Baptist Convention was requesting Army chaplains to serve in Vietnam. After eight years in the Army Reserves, he moved to active duty for another 28 years. Chaplain Pond served in Vietnam 1968-1969, where he received three Bronze Stars and the Air Medal. As a battalion chaplain in Vietnam, he frequently caught helicopter rides to each of the forward operating bases of his five companies to offer counseling and church services on the front lines. Caught in numerous firefights and surviving a Chinook helicopter being shot down, he sustained multiple concussions while serving his men. After Vietnam, he went to Fort Benning, Ga., and attended Airborne, Jumpmaster and Ranger schools. He served as the Airborne School Chaplain and then became the first chaplain ever assigned to the staff of the Ranger Department and the first chaplain to wear the Ranger Black Beret. At the time, he was reported to be the first chaplain since World War II to complete both Airborne and Ranger training. Pond said he pursued the training to earn the respect of his men, so they would be more open to his counsel and his ministry. Pond also served a year in Korea, as well as other assignments including Fort Bliss, Fort Hood, the Chaplains School and NATO’s Supreme Headquarters Allied Powers Europe in Belgium, before his retirement from Fort Sam Houston, Texas, in 1995. After retirement, he continued to serve 20 years as a volunteer chaplain at the Brook Army Medical Center in San Antonio. He is survived by his wife of 69 years, Nancy Pond of Temple; son Jack Douglas Pond and his wife Susan of Downingtown, Penn.; son Randall Stewart Pond and his wife Barbara of Fountain, Colo.; daughter Sharon Lynn Hollon and her husband Brian of Frisco; daughter Amy Elizabeth Carr and her husband Paul of Temple; nine grandchildren; eight great-grandchildren; and three sisters, Dorothy Olds and Lois Anderson, both of Arlington, and Johnnie Skaggs of Glendale, Ariz. Visitation will be at 10 a.m. on Oct. 22 followed by services at 11 a.m. at Taylor’s Valley Baptist Church in Temple. A military burial will be at 2 p.m. at the Central Texas State Veterans Cemetery in Killeen. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to 










