Commentary: Is joy found in life’s many struggles?

Lately, that Vacation Bible School song “I’ve got the joy, joy, joy, joy down in my heart” has been running around in my head, and I can’t get it out.

Amy Butler, senior pastor at Calvary Baptist Church in Washington, D.C.

Remember the song? We learned it to remind us if we love Jesus enough, then joy and peace and all that good stuff would naturally come to us. I don’t recall worrying too much as a 5-year-old about a potential absence of those things in my life, but I do remember liking the song.

Cut to being a grown-up: The quest for love, joy and peace can be almost all-consuming. I see people day-in and day-out who are looking for some or all of these things, often without success.

This is surely one of the great ironies of adulthood. We’re constantly looking for all these things, yet we never sing that Bible-school song in grown-up church.

Does this mean the VBS teachers were wrong, that following Jesus is not automatic bliss and wonderfulness? Does it mean we grown-ups are not following Jesus closely enough when our lives seem lacking peace, joy and love? Does it mean the musical integrity of “I’ve Got the Joy” just won’t stand up to Sunday morning worship? Is the Christian life supposed to be hard?

The other day, I heard a story about the differences between Eastern and Western styles of learning. In the West, you’re not doing well unless you get the answers right all the time. In Eastern cultures, it’s the struggle, not the correct answer, that gets rewarded.

The story reported on a fourth-grade math class in Japan. The kids were learning to draw three-dimensional cubes on paper. One kid just couldn’t get it. The way he was drawing his cubes was all wrong. The teacher noticed this and asked that student to come up to the front and draw his cubes on the board in front of the whole class.

The American researcher saw this and cringed. In America, it’s the kid who had the right drawing first who would be invited up to the board to demonstrate for the class. Calling up the one who wasn’t getting it surely would humiliate the poor kid.

But the researcher watched as the boy tried and erased, over and over again, until he finally drew the cube correctly. When he did, the whole class broke into applause, and that kid went back to his seat feeling important and successful.

In our Western world, we feel like failures if we are unable to accomplish something off the bat. If we struggle, we think something is wrong.

Hearing that story made me wonder about the joy, joy, joy: Is the life of faith a kind of wonderful struggle, where there’s joy and peace and love to be found in the hard trying?

Following Jesus is not for the faint of heart, no matter what the song suggests. I don’t know about you, but I try and try and fail again and again to live a life in which true discipleship comes easy, and very often the joy, peace, love don’t automatically fall into place, either.

Sometimes discipleship is hard.

But perhaps it’s worth considering Eastern theories of learning when it comes to Christian discipleship, because there’s surely peace, joy and love way down in our hearts—and maybe in the struggle to unearth them, too.

Amy Butler is senior pastor at Calvary Baptist Church in Washington, D.C. Her “Talk With the Preacher” column appears biweekly at ABPnews.com.




2nd Opinion: “Bieber fever” & the worship wars

I thought the worship wars were over. The church I grew up in put traditional Southern gospel-style music out to pasture for a more generic contemporary style in the mid-’90s. We weren’t in the most progressive region of the country. Surely we were the last band of skirmishers in a war winding down.

But the war is raging still. I hear from pastors who say their No. 1 problem is helping old-timers turn loose of the hymnals and welcome innovations like overhead projection, electric guitars and a backbeat. At stake for them is the future of their church. How can they reach younger generations with outdated worship?

I’ve marveled at how visceral these discussions get. A Wall Street Journal article suggests why. Reporting on mass hysteria set afire by celebrities like Elvis and the Beatles and, more recently, Justin Bieber, Melinda Beck suggests victims of “Bieber fever” suffer from a legitimate malady. Citing neuroscientist Daniel Levitin, author of This Is Your Brain on Music, Beck explains, “Hearing familiar, favorite music stimulates the release of dopamine, the neurotransmitter involved in pleasure and addiction, providing the same rush as eating chocolate or that winning does for a compulsive gambler.”

{mosimage}The power of “familiar, favorite music” may help explain why musical style is so important to young worshippers. They may interpret the dopamine release they experience while singing a worship song—or even a secular song—as a profoundly spiritual experience. Maybe this explains why my classmates and I went berserk when my friend’s band played “When Jesus Comes Around,” a Christianized version of Green Day’s “When I Come Around.” Silly as it sounds, we found it worshipful. I guess we couldn’t help it.

But the research suggests older Christians also are held in music’s dread sway. Beck reports: “Dr. Levitin’s research also showed that musical tastes formed in the teen years become part of the brain’s internal wiring, as that is the time when some neural pathways are solidifying and others are being pruned away. That’s why the music adults tend to be nostalgic for is the music from their teenage years.”

So, even if you convince a Christian of a certain age “In the Garden” isn’t better theology than “When Jesus Comes Around,” it won’t matter. They’ll still prefer it, not because of what it says but because of how it makes them feel.

Here are three observations of application for churches:

First, pastors would do well to help their congregations give up debate about which style of music is “best.” There are no winners in that battle. For the sake of dialogue, church members must acknowledge their musical preferences are just that—preferences. God is not on the side of the organ or the Stratocaster. Drop the pretense of righteous indignation and simply admit, “We like this music better.”

That said, and second, while we are talking about preferences, we are not talking about mere preferences. If I understand Levitin’s claims, people have profound biological responses to the music they like. They want to hear certain melodies and instruments in worship not because they are selfish or hardheaded but because certain melodies and instruments move them. They produce biological feelings we identify as “worshipful.” And most people won’t be able to explain why.

Finally, if we’re to make progress in the worship debate, we have to shift the focus from music to relationships. Truth be told, I’d be happiest in a service with an Allman Brothers vibe. But I love and respect fellow congregants who are moved by Bach cantatas, which are lost on me. If a pastor could foster an environment in which congregants lobbied for the type of music that moved their friends and loved ones—because each wanted the other to be moved in worship—questions about which is “best” would become inconsequential.

There are issues left unaddressed here, such as whether feeling worshipful should be a priority. In any case, wouldn’t it be something if swarms of screaming, swooning “Beliebers” inspired a ceasefire in the battles over church music?

Brandon J. O’Brien, who suffers from several embarrassing music-related illnesses, is senior editor of Leadership Journal and author most recently of Misreading Scripture with Western Eyes, by InterVarsity Press.




Quotes in the News

“Condescending comments about the ‘gray-haired’ crowd … should be as offensive and unacceptable as ridiculing persons because of race or gender. While always seeking to include persons of diverse ages, backgrounds and experience, we do not need fewer experienced persons to bring their unique gifts and resources to the mix. We need more.”

John Pierce

Editor, on the value of senior-adult involvement in church (Baptists Today)

{mosimage}“Many Scriptures assure us of God’s compassion and care in life’s changing circumstances. None fully explain why evil happens. If Scripture doesn’t explain the inexplicable, why should we attempt to do so? Why can’t we just let things be what they are without having to diagram their origin in order to justify our faith?”

Glen Schmucker

Blogger and author of Beyond the Closure Myth: On the Fallacy of Christian Platitudes (Facebook)

“It’s really hard to get people to listen to you on economic growth, on tax rates, on health care if they think you want to deport their grandmother.”

Marco Rubio

U.S. senator (R., Fla.) discussing immigration reform at the Washington Ideas Forum (Washington Post)




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Thanksgiving can’t arrive fast enough

For most of my adulthood, I appreciated Thanksgiving for a less-than-noble reason: Low stress.

 

Thanksgiving launches the “holiday season”—the jocular jubilee that commences on the fourth Thursday of November, builds across December to a crescendo at Christmas and then descends to its denouement on New Year’s Day.

Without a doubt, Christmas is the biggest, grandest holiday, at least for Christians. We celebrate the Savior’s birth. We get together with family and go to parties with friends. We attend special services at church. We decorate our homes and send out cards. We exchange gifts. But Christmas piles stress higher than cotton snowdrifts at a shopping-mall North Pole. You’ve got the logistics of herding all the family to the same place at the same time and feeding them, as well as orchestrating the parties, home decoration, card-sending and shopping. And then comes the pressure of shopping itself—finding the “just-right” gift for special people. “Black Friday” still is more than a week away, and I can sweat just thinking about it.

Beyond Christmas, New Year’s always seems overrated. Every morning marks the beginning of a new start. I’ve never really understood why folks need to place markers at the beginning of a year; just get on with it. On top of that, when our little family lived far from our extended family, we always started the year a bit blue, because the Christmas trips back home just reminded us how much we missed parents, siblings and other kin.

Marv Knox

But I adored Thanksgiving because it was easy, not to mention fun. We always seemed to get four consecutive days off from work—long enough to unwind, but too short to drive 900 miles one way to see family. So, Joanna, the girls and I relaxed, ignoring the rising storm of Christmas expectations while we gathered with friends, watched football, played games and enjoyed each other’s company.

Years later, I still appreciate the low-key mirth and goodwill of Thanksgiving. But my motives have improved even as my fondness for Thanksgiving has grown. Now, I love Thanksgiving because I realize giving thanks is one of the very best things a person, especially a Christian, can do.

Expressing thanks—cultivating a spirit of gratitude—is good for your body, your attitude, your spirit, your soul. When he provided advice about prayer, the Apostle Paul admonished, “… in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.” Giving thanks opens our hearts to communicate with God and to reciprocate God’s love. It’s the door that opens our lives to God’s presence.

And ironically—or maybe consequently—we need God’s presence most at the times we’re inclined to be less-than-grateful. When we feel neglected, frustrated, disappointed, put-upon, overlooked and perturbed, taking the time to thank God for our blessings changes the way we see the world and our place in it.

This year, Thanksgiving couldn’t come quickly enough. The long and bitter political campaign season took its toll on the American psyche. Ferocious storm Sandy reminded us we live in a volatile and fragile ecosystem, balancing on precarious infrastructure. Stories of violence taunt us day by day. And we’re peering over a monumental fiscal cliff, wondering if our leaders possess the wisdom, courage and grace to prevent catastrophe.

So, we need to say thanks. I’m going to start my list, and you can write your own. On this November 2012, I thank God for:

• Saving my parents’ lives during their head-on car wreck July 4. Providing responsive emergency workers and miracle-working nurses and doctors, particularly those at the University of Oklahoma Medical Center, who put Mother back together.

• The privilege of living in a strong, durable democracy. Our political system is chaotic, frustrating and wasteful, but at least we the people have a voice in our government.

• Colleagues at Baptist Standard Publishing—board, staff and donors—full of “grace to risk something big for something good” as we build FaithVillage.com, transform the Baptist Standard and launch CommonCall magazine, ventures that will change lives and expand God’s kingdom.

• Family and friends who exceed my wildest dreams and far transcend anything I deserve.

• Clean water, healthy food and a safe home.

• The blessing of rising early, pulling on sneakers and running outdoors.

• Music, Tex-Mex, books, Southwestern sunsets, jokes, podcasts, solitude and dogs.

There. I feel better and hope you do. Happy Thanksgiving.

Marv Knox is editor of the Baptist Standard.




DOWN HOME: A generous life, lived for Christ

Funerals of saints bless the living. That definitely was the case Nov. 13, when family and friends gathered to celebrate the life and witness of Mary Kerr Johnston Piper, known far and wide as Miss Katy.

Funerals prompt two responses in my soul.

First, I cannot fathom how unbelievers face death. Humanly speaking, death is the ultimate permanence. How anyone contemplates what’s next without assurance of salvation and promise of God’s presence compromises comprehension.

And second, when we gather to remember the life of a Christian, I cannot help but rejoice. This especially is true when that person lived a long life, which was true for Mrs. Piper, who was 93. Deep down, it’s also true for Christians who are generations younger, because where they went far exceeds where they were. Of course, we grieve because we will miss them. We sometimes grieve because their earthly lives seemed to hold so much more. But we really grieve for ourselves and our loss, not for them and theirs.

Some funerals, such as Mrs. Piper’s, transcend those feelings; they point toward particular truth. At her memorial service, we celebrated the grace, beauty and power of a life totally committed to Christ. Or, as she would have said and speakers acknowledged, two lives totally committed to Christ. Her memorial would not have been complete without remembering and thanking God for her husband, Paul, who preceded her to heaven almost nine years ago.

God gave the Pipers the ability to make money. They transformed a John Deere dealership and plow factory into a diversified company with 1,000 employees and 15 manufacturing plants. But God also shaped their tender hearts with the passion to use their wealth as an engine for multiplying ministry and presenting the Christian gospel around the world.

At Mrs. Piper’s funeral, longtime friend Bill Nichols noted they started their business with $17.50 and achieved their dream of making annual distributions of $17.5 million through their foundations, Christ Is Our Salvation and Christian Mission Concerns. Kent Reynolds, executive director of the foundations, said they gave away about 90 percent of all they ever earned to missions, education, benevolence and other Christian organizations. He cited 34 of them, including Baptist Standard Publishing and the Baptist General Convention of Texas, and their biography lists more than 90.

“The word that best describes Katy and Paul Piper is ‘generous,’” Reynolds said. Nichols reported Mrs. Piper’s life reflected spiritual sensitivity, simple contentment and humble faithfulness. These traits and their generosity will continue, because they trained their family well.

You and I probably couldn’t give away $17.5 million in many lifetimes, much less one year. But we can be faithful stewards—a worthy legacy.




Right or Wrong? Called to ministry

I cannot remember the last time I heard anyone talk about Christians being called into ministry. Shouldn’t we intentionally urge young people to consider ministry as a vocation?

Your question reflects a growing realization of a subtle, yet significant, shift in modern church dynamics. Not so long ago, there was a major emphasis on responding to God’s call to “special service”—usually interpreted to mean a calling into vocational ministry. The invitation to respond to such a calling was provided in most worship services as regularly as the call to conversion or church membership.

Although not completely abandoned, the call to surrender one’s life to special service has become much less emphasized in today’s church services. As a result, there has been a drastic downturn in the number of Baptists, particularly young people, enrolling in ministerial programs. Even within these programs, the number of people pursuing a vocational ministry track is diminishing. Recent surveys show, at the present rate of decline, within a generation there will not be enough vocational ministers to staff existing churches, much less be available to staff church starts.

Several reasons account for this decline in emphasis. In recent years, vocational ministry has become less respected by society in general and the church in particular. A newspaper article from the 1960s detailed the sudden death of a local pastor. Of particular interest to me was the note that the local businesses “on the square” would be closing during the time of the funeral in honor of the pastor. Such honor is not normally accorded to ministers today.

Right or Wrong?As church members have become more educated in theology and biblical studies, and as information has grown easier and faster to attain, even the church has lost some of its respect for the minister. In many cases, ministers are seen as little more than low-level employees of the church. The result of this diminishing respect has been twofold: Many people have no desire to enter such a profession, and many who already are in that position have no desire to encourage others to join them. Thus, the emphasis on ministry professions declines.

Combine that with the proliferation of high-profile ministers who have had various moral and ethical failures, and add to it the negative atmosphere of arguing and fighting that has defined denominational and congregational life, and the result is professional ministry simply is not popular. Then, with the relatively low pay scale, the disintegration nears completion.

Churches and vocational ministers need to regain the sense of importance in calling out people to the ministry. A reclamation of the divine call as the motivation for ministry is needed. The focus must move from the negatives to the immense positives of following God’s call. Only then will we shift from the decline as it exists now.

Van Christian, pastor

First Baptist Church, Comanche

Right or Wrong? is co-sponsored by the Texas Baptist theological education office and Christian Life Commission. Send your questions about how to apply your faith to bill.tillman@texasbaptists.org.




IN TOUCH: Change, Alto Frio, friends & Bluegrove

Hello, Texas Baptists. With Thanksgiving upon us, I’d like to use this opportunity to say thank you, Baptist General Convention of Texas family, for allowing me the opportunity to serve you. I remain honored and humbled to serve as your executive director. I’m grateful and blessed.

I have two announcements to share with you at this time. First, our longtime faithful, dependable and loyal executive assistant to the executive director, Myla McClinton, will retire at the end of this year. She was a blessing to my predecessors and has been so to me. It is a joy to work alongside her. Please join me in wishing her well.

David Hardage

Now, secondly, taking her place will be Elizabeth Biedrzycki. She currently serves Texas Baptists in our communications division and will move to her new position Dec. 1. I am so pleased she has agreed to work alongside and have full confidence in her ability and spirit. Now, join me in saying, “Welcome!”

These last couple of weeks have been busy, but good. I made my first trip to Alto Frio Baptist Encampment in Leakey and spoke to the Lost Maples Senior Adult Conference. Beautiful place! Thanks to Camp Director Mike Wilson for the invitation (www.altofrio.com).

Your Baptist Building staff was blessed in our November chapel service by a great message delivered by Paul Powell, dean emeritus of Baylor University’s Truett Seminary. So well done. And then, Kathleen and I enjoyed hearing him again at the retirement dinner for Lynn Craft, president and CEO of the Baptist Foundation of Texas.

I thank Cody Knowlton, president of the Baptist Health Foundation of San Antonio (www.bhfsa.org), for allowing me to speak to their board of directors recently. They are doing good work.

What a joy it was for me to preach the Sunday morning service at Bluegrove Baptist Church. Bluegrove is 10 miles west of Henrietta. Great church!

More next time. Happy Thanksgiving.

David Hardage is executive director of the Baptist General Convention of Texas Executive Board.




Lost ring prompts prayer for lost souls

Awhile back, my wedding ring went missing. Since that time, there has been much searching and discussion.

Luke 15:8 quotes Jesus: “Or what woman, having 10 silver coins, if she loses one coin, does not light a lamp and sweep the house and seek diligently until she finds it?”

The urgency with which we initially searched for my ring sounds like this woman who has lost a coin. Since my lost wedding ring has been the topic de jour for prayer and ponderings for over awhile, I wonder if the Lord is trying to show me an area of my life where I am missing the mark.

One morning, I awoke at 3:30. I assumed the Lord and I would talk about my ring. He rather preferred to discuss lost sheep and coins.

I wasn’t sure how to pray. Only he can save the ones he brought to my mind. What is my part? Are there conversations to be had? Truth to be spoken? Love to be shown? Mercy and grace to be lived out demonstratively? Power in which to pray? Of course. A sinner am I.

I know people who seem lost. They would call it wandering or taking their time or not needing any directions. But sometimes, the lostness shifts and takes on lonely, perilous shadows. As if they have fallen into a pit, and it is no longer a matter of “which path.” They fully realize there is nothing within their own power that can save them at all. They need Someone to come to their immediate rescue.

“All we, like sheep, have gone astray ….” As one rescued from the deep pit of self-centered striving, I must be mercifully motivated to offer a helping hand to those who need salvation.

If I had to choose … to live comfortably with my wedding ring securely around my finger, talking to God about my day and my darlings and my debt to him or to live within the yearning for something lost being found, while every glance down at my hand would trigger urgent thoughts to pray for and fight for and search after those who are lost, … I would choose never to find my ring.

“And when she has found it, she calls together her friends and neighbors, saying, ‘Rejoice with me, for I have found the coin that I had lost.’ Just so, I tell you, there is joy before the angels of God over one sinner who repents” (Luke 13:9-10).

“Seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness, and all these things shall be added unto you” (Matthew 6:33).

Cari D. Johnson enjoys sharing stories and songs, but not her ginger snaps. Her family of eight worships with Immanuel Baptist Church in Marshall.




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“I’m praying they opt for fast food … or they pray and fast.”



2nd Opinion: Election serves notice to church

Church-growth experts and demographers have been proclaiming cultural and generational shifts for several years. Television coverage of the 2012 election results underscored what the Barna Group and other data analysts have been telling the American church all these years but which many American churches have failed to comprehend or appreciate.

 

According to political pundits, Mitt Romney lost the 2012 presidential election because he appealed to a constituency of Americans that no longer constitutes the majority of voters—even if their cohort still is large enough to produce a close election. The Gallup organization’s research revealed Barack Obama received significant majorities of women, Hispanic and young votes, not to mention significant numbers of other so-called minority groups. As the political commentators talked about these figures throughout election night, camera shots of the crowds in Boston and Chicago only seemed to confirm the polls.

Pundits also repeatedly referred to “the ground game.” Obama’s strategy for winning both the 2008 and 2012 presidential elections involved street-level community organizing engaging large numbers of field offices with large numbers of campaign volunteers, large numbers of grassroots donors, and a significant presence on Facebook and Twitter.

A theological way of describing Obama’s strategy is “incarnation.” Obama put himself where the people are and found ways for a broad base of support to find ownership in his campaign. He spoke their language, and it won him two presidential elections. Regardless of how you feel about Obama or his policies, you simply cannot argue with his campaign strategy.

2nd OpinionFor me, watching the election coverage was less about politics than it was a realization of the power of demographics. When I read about what some call the Millennial generation, I see the future of the American church—a future more present than many seem to realize. Millennials comprise the largest generation in American history, surpassing the Baby Boomers, who occupied the fantasies of Madison Avenue for the last couple of decades. Millennials increasingly are non-white, unmarried and educated. Millennials also tend to be more community- and family-minded and less risk-averse than their forebears. They also are mostly digital-natives.

The Obama campaign understood and appreciated the cultural shift in diversity, communication and expectations taking place among both the Millennials and the larger American culture. The Romney campaign did not. I wonder if we in the American church understand and appreciate the cultural shift happening all around us. Are we taking seriously our society as it is becoming, or are we so convinced in the veracity of our presentation that we are ignoring an audience that is ignoring or turning away from us?

Watching the cameras pan across the two different crowds in Boston and Chicago, I saw what happens when cultural shifts are taken seriously. I also saw a chilling vision of the future of the church in America. I saw that as long as American churches continue to “preach to the choir,” they will steadily lose ground as their constituency decreases. And I wonder: Who will incarnate Christ among the new majority? Thankfully, many are incarnating Christ among those people.

As it goes for the Republican party, so it goes for the American church. If American evangelicals continue engaging the population as Republicans did over the last four years, I expect evangelicals to become increasingly irrelevant in a society obviously becoming more diverse by every measure.

There is, however, at least one flaw in my premise. Presidential campaigns are about winning. Being the church is not. Our campaign already is won. Being the church, then, is about being the body of Christ and embodying his good news and hope in an ever-changing world. Furthermore, the church is not a political campaign, despite the shenanigans of some in ministry. And Jesus is not up for election.

However, inasmuch as the American church tends to borrow secular marketing and growth strategies, the 2012 presidential election serves as notice.

Eric Black is pastor of First Baptist Church in Covington.




Quotes in the News

“I would rather be able to appreciate things I cannot have than to have things I am not able to appreciate.”

Elbert Hubbard

Writer, publisher, artist, and philosopher; 1856-1915 (businesspundit.com)

“There is one day that is ours. Thanksgiving Day is the one day that is purely American.”

O. Henry

aka William Sydney Porter, short-story writer; 1862-1910 (brainyquote.com)

“Pride slays thanksgiving, but an humble mind is the soil out of which thanks naturally grow. A proud man is seldom a grateful man, for he never thinks he gets as much as he deserves.”

Henry Ward Beecher

Congregationalist pastor, social reformer and abolitionist; 1813-1887 (quotegeek.com)

“Thanksgiving dinners take 18 hours to prepare. They are consumed in 12 minutes. Half-times take 12 minutes. This is not coincidence.”

Erma Bombeck

Humorist and newspaper columnist; 1927-1996 (goodreads.com)